Sunday, September 28, 2014

BOLG 1
     SURFING AWAY………….




A couple in a strange country with no support, no family and no friends, surrounded by each other’s love were able to surf away from home… Home, Lebanon, a country with no limits, beautiful sea breath that turned to a dangerous deadly zone with no human values during the war.. Together we sailed to Canada where we were very alone in a society that we could not belong… Together we sailed and faced big waves of racism, ethnicity that we took with courage and triumph… Together we sailed to the unknown that we always fought back with love and respect… When in a new country, a person will invariably experience difficulties with language, housing, friends, schoolwork, and understanding the idiosyncrasies of the local culture
Huge waive fighting sickness and death led us to move to America, Maine.. Together we sailed and were tired from a continuous load and struggle between the guilt of leaving everyone behind to the need of survival… It is with the ocean breath that we felt Maine a safe place to start our family and teach them how to swim… Although, not being great swimmers, my husband and I were able to stop surfing and rest on the shores of Maine… The racism, ethnocentrism waves felt smaller and the ride became safer to rest…and live all stages of the culture shock model ihttp://www.deborahswallow.com/2010/05/15/the-classic-5-stage-culture-shock-model/ after the move.  The first 3 stages were so short because of the kindness, trust and support of neighbors.  Without knowing, we found ourselves surrounded with friends that are lightening our life daily and accepting our differences, trusting us with their loved ones and sharing all cherished moments of their lives. 

Racism is the persuasive and enduring belief that “White people” are superior, based on race, to people of color and in particular to “Black people”. 


TheMaryland Doctrine of Exclusionwas collectively written by the Maryland Colony Council in 1638, and states the following,“Neither the existing black population, their descendents, nor any other blacks shall be permitted to enjoy the fruits of White society.” The doctrine was written to insure that Blacks would remain a “subordinate, non-competitive, non-compensated workforce.”+
























According to the 2010 U.S. Census, there are 1,697,570 Arab Americans in the United States.[3] 290,893 persons defined themselves as simply Arab, and a further 224,241 as Other Arab. Other groups on the 2010 Census are listed by nation of origin, and some may or may not be Arabs, or regard themselves as Arabs. The largest subgroup is by far the Lebanese Americans, with 501,907,[1] followed by; Egyptian American with 190,078, Syrian American with 148,214, Iraqi American with 105,981, Palestinian American with 93,438,Moroccan American with 82,073 and Jordanian American with 61,664. Approximately 1/4 of all Arab Americans claimed two ancestries, Arab Americans, and Arabs in general, comprise a highly diverse amalgam of groups with differing ancestral origins, religious backgrounds and historic identities. Instead, the ties that bind are a shared heritage by virtue of common linguistic, cultural, and political traditions.
















https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YhWPAe7YoCE&feature=youtube_gdata_player


For me, I always took racism in a way to make me stronger and not weaker.  It gave the strength to turn every experience to a power that will help me endure and learn more.  Now I embrace the new culture and see everything in a new, yet realistic light. I no longer feel alone and isolated. I do appreciate both the differences and similarities of the new culture. I feel that I am at home.

With my new family, together we sail.


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